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“Sex Addiction” Isn’t Real — Here’s What the Science Actually Says
Think you’re a sex or porn addict? You’re probably not. Here's what research really says about compulsive sexual behavior, shame, and why the addiction label does more harm than good.

Ray Nelson
Sep 15 min read


✍️ How Existential Humanistic Therapy (EH) Stands Out from CBT, DBT, and EFT
Most folks entering therapy have heard of CBT, DBT, or maybe EFT. And yeah, they’re popular! They offer structure, tools, and quick symptom relief. That fits neatly into a culture obsessed with optimization and output. But Existential Humanistic Therapy? It’s different. It’s NOT standardized. CBT was built to be teachable, scalable, and replicable; like an app. EH is something else: relational, alive, and unrepeatable. There’s no algorithm for presence. 🔄 CBT (Cognitive Beh

Ray Nelson
Oct 174 min read


Existential-Humanistic Psychotherapy - EH Crash Course
🤔 What the hell is it, and why should I care? Existential-Humanistic Psychotherapy isn’t easy work. It doesn’t offer a 10-step plan, a mindfulness app, or a tidy narrative where everything makes sense by the end. What it does offer is a relationship; real, alive, and unflinching. Where you can finally stop performing and start being. Where your depression and anxiety aren’t treated like malfunction, but as normal reactions to abnormal circumstances. Where your shame isn’t

Ray Nelson
Oct 72 min read
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